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How I Met My Husband In The Past

Don't you think the same? Time sometimes fly so fast.. jumping from one moment to another in a rush, when we're busy even more.

It was 2012, when I first met him. When I was still a senior high school student in my last year and he was a university student in his KKN program. He taught music subject and I was one of the student. I didn't do good in music, I can't sing or play an instrument. But somehow, God has the way. 😇

I was one of my music teacher's favorite student, maybe because I used to be an active student to borrow sound system for Rohis event like pengajian, then we met so many times and talked too. My husband is somehow also my teacher's favorite student, and my teacher already claimed him as his son due to their close connection. So, my teacher introduce me to my husband, and my husband started to notice me. While me was not so interested to know him close since I had a boyfriend already.

One month passed, me and my husband was noticing each other more. I got a message on my facebook and it was from him. he wanted to know me more. Well, I thought it was a good greeting and we chatted there. We got close and he gave me his phone number, but I just said "thank you, I'll call or text your number then if necessary". I did'nt give him my phone number 😅 heeyy,, I was still somebody's girlfriend that moment.

Couple of days passed and he chatted me back on my fb and ask for my phone number. I gave him, then he texted me immediately. Yeah, we chatted through sms and getting close but still just as friends. Until one day he confess his feeling.. 

After a year talking to each other through text and sometimes he went to my house to meet in a very short time. I was a bit shocked that he said he had a feeling for me, because he knew that I had boyfriend and we never had a romantic chat, just a friendly chat. I thought we could only be a good friends. So I said "wait".

We still had a good chat and not angry of each other. One day there was an event in my school. I was not a student there anymore, I already graduated and continued my study in university. My husband asked me to go to that event with him if my boyfriend didn't ask me to. Then I said "okay, thank you". Surpisingly my boyfriend also went there with his friends! Crap!! 

I tried to pretend that I don't know my husband. I talked to my boyfriend and said that I came there with my sister (my sister was there too, but with her friends). When the time to go home, I said goodbye to my boyfriend. I walked to the parking lot by myself while my husband waited there. But,, there's a very big surprise that my boyfriend followed me. It was so messy that night. My boyfriend knew that I had a male close friend that took me there and he was kinda bad mood. I couldn't sleep well that night.

The next day, my husband asked me to hang out with him to make me relax so I won't get so anxious about last night. And he asked me to accept his feeling and made him stop to wait. Well, I was a bit confused actually. My boyfriend was not so good in giving me care like him, and somehow there were sooo many facts that surprising about my husband and me, so many sudden things and "oh really" things that made me think he's probably my fate.

So I spent 2 days to clear it all off. I talked to my boyfriend and said goodbye, thinking that maybe we won't be together any longer. We end up good, still.

Yup, then my husband and I started to built a relationship. We've been boyfriend and girlfriend for almost 6 years and commited to have a more serious relationship as married couple. We got married in August 2019 and had a very handsome baby in February 2021.

Of course there were so many bad and good things happen, and still continued until now. 😅 That's life, isn't it?


Anyway, kepo ga suamiku wajahnya seperti apa? He has a youtube channel to subscribe guys! https://youtube.com/channel/UC7RkDPNg_jTU1ILncxMgdgQ


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